Karen from John Gibson House

Karen was referred to John Gibson House as a person who was "hard to house". She was diagnosed with a personality disorder. Her history included several attempts of self-harm, disruptive behaviours and a short prison term for starting fires.

Karen only went to grade 5 in school as she was labeled "mentally retarded". Because of her disruptive behaviours, she spent most of her teenage years in group homes and, as an adult, in boarding homes. Unfortunately, the care and treatment she received was more punitive than supportive. Rather than try more constructive and positive ways of managing her life challenges, she became more entrenched in her anti-social behaviours.

When she applied to John Gibson House, we knew there was risk involved but sensed that there was real potential for Karen to experience a different quality of life and to achieve some successes. Over the past several months, there have been incidents when she attempted to harm herself, when she "ran away" for a few days and when her behaviours have been a challenge to manage. On the other hand, and more importantly, she has made friends with several other residents. She is learning to reach out to staff when she is experiencing feelings of depression and despondency. Instead of internalizing these feelings and directing them toward self-harm, she is increasingly going to staff to let them know what is happening and is responding to their support. In addition, she is joining in group activities and developing her social skills.

Prior to her move to John Gibson House; her family were at their "wits end". For many years they tried to support Karen but her abusive behaviours virtually sabotaged their efforts. They were angry, frustrated and ready to cut of all contact with her. As a result of the changes they have observed since her coming to John Gibson House, they keep in regular contact with Karen by telephone. Also, they have come to visit her on several occasions which Karen understands is a practical ration of their concern for and support of her.

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